Hello Mommies,
It's festive season, Be Kind t...

Hello Mommies,
It's festive season, Be Kind to yourself!

I had huge plans to let loose and celebrate this period! But on 23rd when i had a drinking session w my best friend, i figured that's not happening this year.

When i came home tipsy at 1am, i told Deon to take the night-shift. He agreed. But i still had to pump and dump. And then baby woke up early for her nightfeed, so i jumped out of bed still tipsy and heat up the milk. When Deon was feeding, i lay semi awake. And because Layla wasn't latching, she took longer than usual to go back to sleep. By the time i slept, it was 430am. Woke up the next morning at 8am with a spliting headache. And mommy duties continue. No such thing as off day for Mamas. Too much to compromise just for a night of fun!

So, mommies, if you're feeling lonely and shortchanged this festive period, remember that this is not permanent. It is but a passing phase. And remember about Choice Theory. We chose this. We chose to be a mom. And frankly, the joy of being a mom highly outweighs the fun of partying anyway! It may feel like it's so much to give up especially when your friends are still living the fun, exciting life.

But trust me. It'll all be worth it. If it's any consolation, there's a huge community out there journeying together with you. Whatever you feel, we feel too.

Merry Christmas to you. And remember, you r never alone.

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